Numb? Or something else?

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So I am watching some TV trash that I enjoy, Van Helsing.  The season 3, episode 5, where some of the survivors make it to the "Denver Safezone", and Vanessa, her sister and the marine are out... I dunno, doing something or another, fighting some vampires.  There's a melodramatic moment between V and her sister, and a thought hit me that has been going through my mind quite a bit recently:  I am numb.  I am completely numb to all the drama and melodrama, and not just on TV, but in real life as well.  I really don't feel like arguing with anyone, nor even getting up on weekends and doing anything.  Am I depressed?  Am I psychotic?  Something else?  What's the deal?  It's like my zest for life has just disappeared.  I hope someone out there reading this is a shrink.  Feel free to jot me an e-mail and tell me what I've got.

On the flip side, I was propositioned by a prostitute on Friday.  In my youth, I would have said, "no way!"  Now I'm thinking... hey, she's a pro.  Probably knows what she's doing.  Could be fun.  That shit should be legal.  What you do with your own body is your business.

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